“Actions speak louder than words” is a good saying but sometimes is not enough. Especially in the bedroom. Talking dirty with your partner is not only a turn on but is the only way of letting them know what you want sexually. But this is easier said than done. Talking dirty is not about what you see on porn films. No corniness or swearing, it’s just feeling loved, sexy, wanted. Follow these tips and you won’t know why you ever doubted yourself.
“I really liked that”
To get use to talking about sex, the best time is after you have had sex. Why after sex? Well, you have just had sex so you have something dirty to talk about. For example, “I loved the way you were kissing me whilst your penis was inside me.” (You can call his bits whatever you feel comfortable with.) This is not only a compliment but tells him what you like and guarantees a second round of sex.
“Talk dirty to me”
While having sex ask him to talk dirty to you. This will surprise him in a pleasant way and if he is a bit shy or doesn’t know how, this is your cue to talk dirty to him. On the other hand if he does talk dirty and you like what he is saying, follow suit and talk back to him telling him what you like and what you want him to do to you.
Use your hands
When sitting together, at dinner perhaps, stroke his leg and tell him what you would like him to do to you or what you would like to do to him. This works best when you are eating out, because he will have to wait to get you home before you can get to business.
Give him a call
Phone your guy up and tell him what you want to do to him and the other way round. Phone him during office hours, say just after lunch. He will be sweating in his pants and will leave him on a high all day.
A short note
If you are still not confident enough to talk dirty to him then write him a short note telling him what you want. In a letter you can be as explicit as you like and can write the way you know he would like to hear it. -elitedatingguide-